Truth: A guy who bends the rules or cracks jokes that make you blush may be good for you, as long as he's not a law-breaking bad boy. He opens you up to new ideas, which challenges you to think differently and allows you to question or strengthen beliefs that are important to you. Tell him how you think, because in the end, he'll help you know yourself better.
Myth: If this relationship seems rocky, take a break.
Truth: Giving each other some breathing room when having problems sounds like a good plan. But sometimes, a break is just a pretend to end the relationship without being gutsy enough to actually do it. Instead, figure out how you can fix things together. If can't, it's time to let go.
Myth: Fighting means you're not right for each other.
Truth: Fighting in a non-violent way can actually mean you two are growing even closer. Arguing is how you learn to ask for what you want in a relationship, and to listen what your guy needs. Just make sure you're not fighting over the same things again and again. If you keep rehashing the same arguments, it means neither of you is compromising,which is crucial element in a healthy relationship.
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and i actually gave the wrong direction to someone!
so ashamed. but hey, i don't know jurong that well either! heeee.
love,
.nisya
